Becky Tinsley-Birth Doula

Oh, how I'd love to go back to those first weeks and months. I was ever-present, yet never really there at all. My head was elsewhere, caught up in all the shou...lds, in the baby books, the apps, the impossible schedules; all the perceived perfections of motherhood that felt so at odds with what you were telling me you needed. I followed my heart every single time. But never with conviction. Always apologetically as though I were somehow giving in. Not doing it right. I fought it. Like a quiet war. It was exhausting. I'd love to go back and mother that version of you, but as this version of me; the mum I am today. More relaxed, more rested, more sure, no longer seeking approval, embracing the fact that I will be happily rocking my boy to sleep until he doesn't need it anymore. It's not just our babies that grow. ----------------------- Words by Karen McMillan (Mother Truths) Taken from "Lessons: Reflections on Early Motherhood" Available to buy worldwide: https://linktr.ee/mother_truths Art by: @beejohnsonillo

So much this!

The next breastfeeding cafe is taking place May 20th. Great group for breastfeeding information and support!

Definitely true! Partners can be a great source of support but having a trained, objective, and caring doula in the room can be a great help for both parents

I always tell clients to make a postpartum plan which includes talking about these things. Its so important to do ahead of time so there is no resentment or unrealistic expectations after baby arrives!

It's very common to have a million thoughts and feelings about breastfeeding and life with a new baby. You're not alone #breastfeeding #ibclc #lactationconsultant #midwife #mother #baby #mindfullness #breastfeedingconcerns #breastfeedingsupport #overwhelmed #overloaded #notalone

Heads Up...Breastfeeding cafe tomorrow!

Breastfeeding cafe dates

If anyone is due towards the end of this year and would like a midwife, check this out. Very exciting!