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You may experience these symptoms immediately or have a delayed response after betrayal, and for some women, we’re just so used to feeling this way that it feels normal. #symptomsofbetrayaltrauma #betrayaltrauma #betrayal #betrayed #marriagebetrayal #betrayaltraumarecovery #betrayedwife

I’ve heard of women physically causing their spouse pain, emotionally lashing out or even stepping into emotional or physical affairs as a means to hurt their spouse. Hurt people tend to hurt other people. When were hurting and can see the lack of empathy and remorse in our spouse it’s common to want to make them feel the hurt we are experiencing. ... When they disclose a weight is lifted for them. When they’re honest about the issues they feel closer to us. When they’re vulnerable they feel connected and want closeness. And through it all we’re feeling like we’re drowning, lost in overwhelming grief and heartache. Revenge will never heal what’s broken, it will only hurt you more. Making them suffer wont fix it or make you feel any better. Have you struggled with the desire to hurt them how they hurt you? #marriagestory #marriageadvice #christianmarriage #godlymarriages #godlymarriage #godlywife #betrayalrecovery #marriagebetrayal

This months Live Workshop is set for Thursday at 6pm cst. Join us live for in depth teaching, live Q&A and a massive workbook with actionable steps to help you move forward to repairing and rebuilding the damage from betrayal and addictions. Like and Tag a friend in comments to win your ticket for free! ... #workshop #webinar #rebuildingmarriage #repairingmarriages #healingmarriage #marriagestory #christianmarriagecoach #christianmarriages #godlywife #godlymarriage #rebuildingtrust #marriagebetrayal #marriagebetrayals #marriagetrauma #repairtrust #brokentrust #infedility

Boundaries help us respect ourselves and others! For those of us who struggle to say no, boundaries can be full of fear, guilt and feeling selfish. Remember that healthy boundaries help us take responsibility for what is ours and not what isn’t. And often the ones most offended or upset because of our boundaries are those who were benefiting from you not having them. ... What healthy boundary tips would you add to this list? #healthyboundaries #boundariesarehealthy #setboundaries #settingboundaries #boundariesinmarriage #christianmarriage #christianwife #godlymarriage #godlywoman #godlywife #godlycouples #godlylove #christcenteredmarriage @ Canada

Even when building intimacy it’s important to focus on building the new not fighting the old. What new choices for healthy intimacy are you going to choose to build into your relationship? Need help thinking of some check out the Intimacy Highlight. ... #healthyrelationships #healthymarriage #godlymarriage #godlywomen #godlywife #godlyhusbandsandwives #beyondbetrayal #afterbetrayal #christianmarriage #christianwife #christianrelationships #rebuildrelationships #restorerelationships

It’s time to stop sitting at the tables where our feelings, struggles and journey to overcome, are not welcome. Why are you sitting where you don’t belong? There is a better table for you, there are tables full of people that want to build you up instead of tearing you down. Ones with those who want to weep with you and rejoice with you. People that have been struggling, hurting and broken too but want to come alongside you as you walk your journey. ... You shouldn’t feel alone at a table full of people. You shouldn’t feel gossiped about and the table shouldn’t be full of gossip. You shouldn’t feel ignored, belittled or told that your problems are too much. Those are not your people and those aren’t your tables. FIND YOURSELF A BETTER ONE! #findabettertable #findyourcircle #communitysupport #buildcommunity #christiancommunity #christiancoaching #findcommunity #godlycommunity #godlyliving #growcommunity #growtogether