Julia Roman

For those who has the emotional center defined, have you accepted the fact that you do go through the wave ?

If you kid is a projector If you happen to have a projector kid in your family, you probably know he/she is a bit different from the rest of the kids. Your kid may be curios for knowledge ... Your kid may be asking a lot of questions Your kid may seem a bit tired at the end of the day Your kid may be distant from you sometimes Your kid may be melancholic All of those characteristics may apply to projector kids. But also, You kid may be social or not Your kid may be quiet or loud You kid may be energetic or not Projectors are not all the same. In fact, they are all different. But what makes them the projector type is their aura. Penetrating and focused on the other. All projector kids are longing to be recognized for their gifts and talents. Don’t let them feel like nobody cares what they think. Listen to them, appreciate their input, ask for their opinion. All of that will make them feel recognized and appreciated. Don’t treat them like kids who don’t know what they are talking about. In fact, a projector kid may see things that you may not see, or understand things that you may not understand. They are born wise. The other aspect of projector kids is letting them rest as much as needed. They are not the energy type. They do not have the sacral of his/hers generator friends. Your kid may be exhausted after the whole day at school with generators. Don’t treat them like they are lazy. They need that time off, they need a break to be alone and release the energy of others. Before bedtime, let them calm down, read a book or have a quiet time. One-two hours before going to sleep is essential for projector kids to wind down. It is preferable for projectors to sleep by themselves. They use that time to decondition and be in their own aura without others interfering. Any of you here have projector kids?

Britney after 2007 Everyone was expecting a strong comeback of Britney after the breakdown but she fell flat miserably at the VMA’s in 2007. Different sources still speculate what happened there and why Britney went to the stage fully unprepared and embarrassed herself. My own guess is that she showed up looking miserable intentionally because she wanted to communicate to the world her actual feelings at the moment (channel 11-56 design of a storyteller). She was trapped and... under a 24/7 control being labelled mentally sick. Her only way to cry for help was via her performance on stage. Her videos and performances always have had an agenda and that one wasn't an exception. But the cruel media and her peers shamed her yet again and didn’t want to look a bit deeper of what's actually going on. The song Piece of me released in 2007 was the attempt to take on the whole World and shame people for using her as a product not a person. She shoots Perez Hilton (the scandalous media personality) in her video Piece of me after his awful allegations towards her after the VMA’s. So that you know, it’s been 13 plus years and she is still under conservatorship. She has made hundreds of millions of dollars in that period of time (with majority going to her management team), performed in hundreds of shows world wide, had a residency in Vegas, but yet she is not allowed to make decisions like driving a car without permission because she is mentally unstable. Since 2007 there have been multiple music videos with Britney being in a cage. She has always been actively participating in production so a lot of ideas and concepts in the videos are her own. Being in a cage, that's what Britney feels like. And it’s the worst for a manifesting generator. She has made a lot of money for her team and they have been exploiting her for years treating her like a cash cow. It feels disgusting and disturbing to say the least. It’s a modern slavery and nobody seems to notice that. The only hope is for #freebritney movement that started to create awareness and educate people of what is actually going on.

Part 2. Personal Life of Britney Britney seems like an emotional person although she has the solar plexus undefined. But she has a very important gate in her solar plexus center which is the gate of intimacy (Gate 6). It is the gate of passions, desire and needs. People with this gate are longing for intimacy although some may have certain fears around it. In order for the right relationships to occur a person needs to make decisions correctly and not rush into intimate rel...ationships. Do you remember Britney’s shortest marriage of 55 hours? Yep! Physical contact is important for those with gate 6 to spark relationships. Most of Britney’s partners worked with her in the projects and there was definitely physical contact to build the connection. She met her current boyfriend Sam Ashghari at the set of the music video Slumber party. He is a manifesting generator as well btw. Britney’s Gate 6 really wants to have gate 59 to complete the Channel of Mating (design of reproduction or making babies basically). Guess who had gate 59 to get Briteny to make babies? Yes! Kevin Federline. I can’t say if the decision to start the relationship with him was correct for Britney or not at the time, but fast forwarding 15 years, she has two kids from him. Another interesting thing about Gate 6 is people with this gate are attracted to people that are different from them. Hence all her boyfriends and the current one Sam is probably the most unusual and unexpected she has ever dated. Britney had a potential for being a great mom from the start. She has gate 50 (gate of a guardian), which protects and guides the children and takes on responsibility for providing the sources needed for the children to be brought up successfully. Media has been harsh with her from the very beginning scrutinising her every move as a new mom and criticizing when possible. She has always said that being a mom is the most important role for her. Manipulating her using her kids is the most cruel thing that could be done to her. That is exactly what her father has been doing under the conservatorship. To be continued...

, ( ). How often do we parents think we know better? How often do we push our kids to do things they don’t necessarily want? You don't want this broccoli soup? What are you talking about? It’s yummy and healthy for you! You gotta eat it! You don’t like Billy? He is a good kid. You better be friends with him!... You don’t wanna go visit your uncle? You have to go, he is family! The examples can go on and on.. You may ask now But what do we do? How to get them to eat veggies, to behave, to pick what’s best for them? ' ? ' ? I know it sounds very unrealistic and the smaller your child is the harder it is to step out and trust their choices. I’m in the same boat. Everyday I try to take off my mom’s hat and put on my observer/guide hat that helps me limit my emotions and look at things more objectively. You should try too.. . . / . . , ? . ’ . !

. You wish you had more colored centers since they say it’s where the energy gets produced. Don’t judge your chart too quickly.... You’ll see what I mean in a second. Have you ever had a scenario constantly repeated in life? Like you stepping on the same rake over and over again. For example, you keep taking more and more workload when you know that you can’t do that. But your boss keeps asking you so you can’t say no. Or you keep fixing your mom's problems and wish she would take responsibility for her own actions. You do that 100 times and then finally you ask yourself: ? . Human Design can warn you that you tend to over-promise or take on too much when you can’t do that or you tend to fix other people’s problems and forget about yourself. By becoming aware of what your tendencies are, you can predict them and alter your behavior. Do you wanna know how you can do that? Look at your OPEN CENTERS. Each Open Center has its wisdom and power. Each Open Center can teach you things that you would have maybe learned yourself after several years of bad experiences. Or maybe you would have never learned them at all and would have kept stepping on the same take over and over again. ? ?

... The pressure will always be there. The faster you complete a task, the new one will come in and the race will go on. As I said, open root is a great resource to get things done but don’t overuse it. If you suddenly feel stressed without a reason, look around. Who is surrounding you? Are they stressed? Let them be stressed and don’t associate yourself with their stress. It is great to help other people, especially in a work environment to accomplish their goals but don’t let them take advantage for you. They know they can make you get things done if they pressure you a little bit. Stand your grounds. ' ’ It’s a great feeling of getting things done and open root can be a great resource here. But foolish rushing can lead to unpleasant results. ’ Having an open root center will attract the stress of other people and without knowing it you may become stressed as well. If you notice your partner being stressed, let him be, you do not have to become stressed because he is. You can support and be empathic but being stressed yourself will not help. ’ ’ Open root people are great with deadlines because they want to get things done to release that pressure. But you have enough of your own deadlines to take on the deadlines of others. Respect your timeline and have others respect it too.

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. Do not rush things, transformation never happens overnight. ... Yes, your mindset may change overnight, but it only means the start of the process. Since Human Design is a practical tool, it makes more sense with every application and overtime. That magic pill is in your consistent actions and experiments. If you know your open centers by now, you can start noticing when you act from your NOT SELF rather than from your TRUE SELF. For example, if you have an open ego, you can attract the situations when you are just eager to prove yourself. You take on more workload at work to prove your boss you are worthy , you do all the housework to prove your husband you are a good wife, so on.. Nothing’s wrong in doing a good job but only if your health and energy is not compromised. Only if it's coming from your TRUE SELF. Next slide will have the NOT SELF questions you can ask yourself depending on your OPEN CENTERS. ( ), , ?