Mrs. Matchmaker

But first, love yourself; these four simple words are extremely powerful! You will only ever have a relationship as good as you think you deserve. Let that sink in. There is a fine line between putting yourself on a pedestal and setting unrealistic expectations and knowing your worth and not settling. So where is this line exactly? When it comes to relationships, sometime we make bad decisions or let things go on for too long, knowing it's not going to work. Learning to m...ake choices that set you up for a promising future is the best gift you can give yourself. Here are my top 3 ways to know if you are making decisions from that magic, in between space, where your highest good is always priority: 1. You have a self care routine and you stick to it (even when in a new relationship). By now, hopefully you know what you need to do to function at your best. Eating healthy, well-balanced meals, getting enough sleep, exercising. If you find your rituals are slipping, this could be a sign you are not listening to what you need and the effects will trickle into every aspect of your life. 2. Are you recognizing the red flags for what they are and taking action? Over-riding your intuition is a disservice to yourself. If it's an issue now, it will be an issue later on, so do yourself a favor and deal with it right away. 3. With each new situation and moment, you take a breath and ask yourself, "What do I need right now?". Of course there is give and take in a relationship, but if you know you need some alone time after a hectic week but instead give in to pressure to go to an event because you feel like you should, what are you telling yourself? I hope you find these tips helpful. Take a moment for some self love today. You are worth it!!

I'm back!! Like most of you, I took a pause.....I rested, refocused and tried to go with the flow. I wasn't sure what the future would hold or what matchmaking in the future would like and I had no expectations; I just let it be. Recently I started to sense a shift, a kind of restlessness starting to happen and people began reaching out again. This makes my heart so happy as I have missed chatting with you all and getting to know you! Some of you have felt more lonely th...an ever over the last couple months and have shifted your priorities to include being open to dating in a new way. Others have realized the opportunity to use this time to connect and are making the most of it. Whatever your situation is or where you are at in these unprecedented times, we can find a way to get you dating (be it video calls or meeting in a park). If love is on your mind, lets make it happen! https://mrsmatchmaker.ca/contact See more

Embrace your weirdness! No two relationships are the same, there is no box you need to fit in, decide what works for you and just know that there is someone out there with a similar values, interests, goals and personality.....don't give up.

It's so true! Take action to make your life what you want it to be. The love of your life will not come knock on your door. If you want someone to share your life with, make it a priority.