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LET US HEAR FROM THE OTHER GENDER, A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE: I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws....Continue reading

This has ruined many men's life and dreams.

Save to say with how far civilization has come, I am not an advocate of polygamy neither am I against it. But the look on Maryam Sanda's face clearly shows she is completely remorseful/regretful of her action but who cares? How does that undo the everlasting damage caused by her first-degree anger? A little patience and tolerance could have changed the story no matter what her husband did wrong. Meanwhile, one wonders if it's no longer acceptable by some Muslim ladies for ...a Muslim man to Marry more than one wife. I'm wondering because late Bilyamin Muhammed Bello who died of domestic violence did divorce his first wife only to end up marrying his killer-wife in accordance with reports; So it is safe to say that his first marriage crashed as his first wife refused to let him take another wife since he was entitled to four wives. Again, Bello was stabbed to death following a text message that smacks of infidelity which Maryam saw in the deceased' phone and I ask again, are Muslim men no longer permitted to rock more than one woman in or out of wedlock? I'm yet to know what gives any Muslim woman the right to raise dust over infidelity not to talk of shedding blood. Why crucify a man who left his first wife for you? How could you expect fidelity from such a man? Karma is truly a bitch.. What goes around always comes around in the end.. Yet some people would never learn.. And now, there are consideration to set her free so she could :Take care of her only daughter" Well, what do you recon? See more

Men don’t always express in words the heavy burdens they carry. Believe it or not, small gestures like hugs, shoulder massages (for even a minute or two), scalp rubs, kisses on the face, an enthusiastic smile when you first see us and peaceful silence can be powerful for healing. If he chooses to speak about what’s bothering him, just listen without judging him, challenging him or criticizing him or he may clam up and decide to keep it to himself. Men are human too and don’t only want to touch when it leads to sex. We love sex but also need simple kindness and connection. Kindness and affection doesn’t make us soft, needy or weak...it simply recharges us and keeps us strong.