The One Way Club Maple Ridge
22270 North Ave V2X 2L5 Maple Ridge, BC, Canada

4 January BEGIN WHERE YOU ARE We feel that elimination of our drinking is but a beginning. A much more important demonstration of our principles lies before us in our respective homes, occupations and affairs. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 19... It's usually pretty easy for me to be pleasant to the people in an A.A. setting. While I'm working to stay sober, I'm celebrating with my fellow A.A.s our common release from the hell of drinking. It's often not so hard to spread glad tidings to my old and new friends in the program. At home or at work, though, it can be a different story. It is in situations arising in both of those areas that the little day-to-day frustrations are most evident, and where it can be tough to smile or reach out with a kind word or an attentive ear. It's outside of the A.A. rooms that I face the real test of the effectiveness of my walk through A.A.'s Twelve Steps. See more

3 January POWERLESS We admitted we were powerless over alcohol that our lives had become unmanageable. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 21... It is no coincidence that the very first Step mentions powerlessness: An admission of personal powerlessness over alcohol is a cornerstone of the foundation of recovery. I've learned that I do not have the power and control I once thought I had. I am powerless over what people think about me. I am powerless over having just missed the bus. I am powerless over how other people work (or don't work) the Steps. But I've also learned I am not powerless over some things. I am not powerless over my attitudes. I am not powerless over negativity. I am not powerless over assuming responsibility for my own recovery. I have the power to exert a positive influence on myself, my loved ones, and the world in which I live. See more

2 January FIRST, THE FOUNDATION Is sobriety all that we can expect of a spiritual awakening? No, sobriety is only a bare beginning. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 8... Practicing the A.A. program is like building a house. First I had to pour a big, thick concrete slab on which to erect the house; that, to me, was the equivalent of stopping drinking. But it's pretty uncomfortable living on a concrete slab, unprotected and exposed to the heat, cold, wind and rain. So I built a room on the slab by starting to practice the program. The first room was rickety because I wasn't used to the work. But as time passed, as I practiced the program, I learned to build better rooms. The more I practiced, and the more I built, the more comfortable, and happy, was the home I now have to live in. See more

Happy First Day of 2021 Come on down and see us today Open till 9pm Complimentary coffee tea and individually wrapped goodies Safety protocols in place

1 January "I AM A MIRACLE" The central fact of our lives today is the absolute certainty that our Creator has entered into our hearts and lives in a way which is indeed miraculous. He has commenced to accomplish those things for us which we could never do by ourselves. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 25... This truly is a fact in my life today, and a real miracle. I always believed in God, but could never put that belief meaningfully into my life. Today, because of Alcoholics Anonymous, I now trust and rely on God, as I understand Him; I am sober today because of that! Learning to trust and rely on God was something I could never have done alone. I now believe in miracles because I am one! See more

From The One Way Club Board of Directors to you and yours Sending many positive blessings for 2021

Maple Ridge/Pitt Meadows November 2020 - Online, In Person and HYBRID Meetings ***Masks are required for in person attendance at the One Way Club***... MONDAY Monday Night Grace 8PM HYBRID at Grace church 50 max Harris Road Pitt Meadows Zoom Meeting ID - 293 215 340 PW - 1212 Garden Variety 7:30 pm Ruskin Hall 28385 96 ave East Maple Ridge TUESDAY Alpha Group 7:30pm In Person - One Way Club WEDNESDAY Harris Rd No Smoke 8pm Zoom Meeting ID - 363 588 551 Haney North Ave Group 8 PM In Person - One Way Club THURSDAY Burnett Brown Bagger 12 pm HYBRID - One Way Club Zoom Meeting ID 768 728 222 PW - burnett Phone in number +1 778 907 2071 After School Club 3pm In Person - One Way Club Double H 8pm HYBRID - One Way Club Zoom Meeting ID - 883 9523 0029 PW - oneway Ridge Meadows Men’s @ 8pm Zoom Meeting ID - 695 190 564 PW - 1212 FRIDAY Friday Night One Way Meeting 8pm IN PERSON - One Way Club SATURDAY Haney Legacy 2pm HYBRID - One Way Club Zoom Meeting ID - 883 9523 0029 PW - oneway Dark side of the Spoon CA 630 pm In Person One Way Club SUNDAY Serene Sunday 11am HYBRID - One Way Club Zoom Meeting ID - 883 9523 0029 PW - oneway Sunday Night meeting 8pm In Person- One Way Club NOONERS Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday 12pm In Person - One Way Club

Maple Ridge/Pitt Meadows JUNE 2020 - Online, In Person and HYBRID Meetings Monday... Monday Night Grace 8PM HYBRID at Grace church 50 max Harris Road Pitt Meadows Zoom Meeting ID - 293 215 340 PW - 1212 Garden Variety 7:30 pm Ruskin Hall 28385 96 ave East Maple Ridge Tuesday Alpha Group 7:30pm In Person - One Way Club Wednesday Harris Rd No Smoke 8pm Zoom Meeting ID - 363 588 551 Haney North Ave Group 8 PM In Person - One Way Club Thursday Burnett Brown Bagger 12 pm HYBRID - One Way Club Zoom Meeting ID 768 728 222 After School Club 3pm In Person - One Way Club Double H 8pm HYBRID - One Way Club Zoom Meeting ID - 883 9523 0029 PW - oneway Ridge Meadows Men’s @ 8pm Zoom Meeting ID - 695 190 564 PW - 1212 Friday Friday Night One Way Meeting 8pm IN PERSON - One Way Club Saturday Haney Legacy 2pm HYBRID - One Way Club Zoom Meeting ID - 883 9523 0029 PW - oneway Dark side of the Spoon CA 630 pm In Person One Way Club Sunday Serene Sunday 11am HYBRID - One Way Club Zoom Meeting ID - 883 9523 0029 PW - oneway Sunday Night meeting 8pm In Person- One Way Club Nooners Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday 12pm In Person - One Way Club

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24 November A UNIVERSAL SEARCH Be quick to see where religious people are right. Make use of what they offer. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 87... I do not claim to have all the answers in spiritual matters, any more than I claim to have all the answers about alcoholism. There are others who are also engaged in a spiritual search. If I keep an open mind about what others have to say, I have much to gain. My sobriety is greatly enriched, and my practice of the Eleventh Step more fruitful, when I use both the literature and practices of my Judeo-Christian tradition, and the resources of other religions. Thus, I receive support from many sources in staying away from the first drink. See more

Saturday November 7 at 7pm When Love is not enough: the Lois Wilson Story Bring your chairs, blankets, pillows Doors open 6 Concession open for pop and candy ... popcorn by donation Entry by donation Last one was great success! Social distancing in place

20 November "THY WILL, NOT MINE" . . . when making specific requests, it will be well to add to each one of them this qualification. ". . . if it be Thy will." TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 102... I ask simply that throughout the day God place in me the best understanding of His will that I can have for that day, and that I be given the grace by which I may carry it out. As the day goes on, I can pause when facing situations that must be met and decisions that must be made, and renew the simple request: "Thy will, not mine, be done." I must always keep in mind that in every situation I am responsible for the effort and God is responsible for the outcome. I can "Let Go and Let God" by humbly repeating: "Thy will, not mine, be done." Patience and persistence in seeking His will for me will free me from the pain of selfish expectations. See more

2 November KEEPING OPTIMISM AFLOAT The other Steps can keep most of us sober and somehow functioning. But Step Eleven can keep us growing, . . . THE LANGUAGE OF THE HEART, p. 240... A sober alcoholic finds it much easier to be optimistic about life. Optimism is the natural result of my finding myself gradually able to make the best, rather than the worst, of each situation. As my physical sobriety continues, I come out of the fog, gain a clearer perspective and am better able to determine what courses of action to take. As vital as physical sobriety is, I can achieve a greater potential for myself by developing an ever-increasing willingness to avail myself of the guidance and direction of a Higher Power. My ability to do so comes from my learningand practicingthe principles of the A.A. program. The melding of my physical and spiritual sobriety produces the substance of a more positive life. See more

ONE WAY CLUB - CLUB COORDINATOR POSITION Summary of Responsibilities: Oversee daily operation and the internal workings of the One Way Club as directed by the Board of Directors.... Management of volunteers, staff and groups renting space in the Club. Monthly budgetary expenditure reporting and administrative duties. Monitor and manage building maintenance. Coordinate communication with the Board of Directors, membership and the community at large to develop a fundraising strategy and increase the Club’s profile and recognition within the community. Research applicable grants and subsidies to ensure the ongoing operation of the club. Be available for some weekends and evenings when required. Skills and Abilities required: Good working knowledge of Microsoft Office applications (Outlook, Excel, Word, PowerPoint). Excellent oral and written communication skills. Experience with budgets to allow informed and cost effective operating decisions. Research, grants, subsidy and nonprofit experience an asset. Collaborative approach to delivering and developing programs and services. Passion, knowledge and/or experience in a 12 step and/or recovery setting. Proven ability to manage, lead and motivate volunteers/staff while being a team player. If you feel this position is a good fit for you, please email your resume and two references by November 13, 2020 to: [email protected] PLEASE: Be sure to put in the subject line Application for Club Coordinator - OWC

23 November "HOLD YOUR FACE TO THE LIGHT" Believe more deeply. Hold your face up to the Light, even though for the moment you do not see. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 3... One Sunday in October, during my morning meditation, I glanced out the window at the ash tree in our front yard. At once I was overwhelmed by its magnificent, golden color! As I stared in awe at God's work of art, the leaves began to fall and, within minutes, the branches were bare. Sadness came over me as I thought of the winter months ahead, but just as I was reflecting on autumn's annual process, God's message came through. Like the trees, stripped of their leaves in the fall, sprout new blossoms in the spring, I had had my compulsive, selfish ways removed by God in order for me to blossom into a sober, joyful member of A.A. Thank you, God, for the changing seasons and for my ever-changing life See more

22 November ONLY TWO SINS . . . there are only two sins; the first is to interfere with the growth of another human being, and the second is to interfere with one's own growth.... ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 542 (Third Edition) Happiness is such an elusive state. How often do my "prayers" for others involve "hidden" prayers for my own agenda? How often is my search for happiness a boulder in the path of growth for another, or even myself? Seeking growth through humility and acceptance brings things that appear to be anything but good, wholesome and vital. Yet in looking back, I can see that pain, struggles and setbacks have all contributed eventually to serenity through growth in the program. I ask my Higher Power to help me not cause another's lack of growth todayor my own. From the book Daily Reflections

19 November "I WAS SLIPPING FAST" We A.A.'s are active folk, enjoying the satisfactions of dealing with the realities of life, . . . So it isn't surprising that we often tend to slight serious meditation and prayer as something not really necessary. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 96... I had been slipping away from the program for some time, but it took a death threat from a terminal disease to bring me back, and particularly to the practice of the Eleventh Step of our blessed Fellowship. Although I had fifteen years of sobriety and was still very active in the program, I knew that the quality of my sobriety had slipped badly. Eighteen months later, a checkup revealed a malignant tumor and a prognosis of certain death within six months. Despair settled in when I enrolled in a rehab program, after which I suffered two small strokes which revealed two large brain tumors. As I kept hitting new bottoms I had to ask myself why this was happening to me. God allowed me to recognize my dishonesty and to become teachable again. Miracles began to happen. But primarily I relearned the whole meaning of the Eleventh Step. My physical condition has improved dramatically, but my illness is minor compared to what I almost lost completely. See more

18 November A SAFETY NET Occasionally. . . . We are seized with a rebellion so sickening that we simply won't pray. When these things happen we should not think too ill of ourselves. We should simply resume prayer as soon as we can, doing what we know to be good for us. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 105... Sometimes I scream, stomp my feet, and turn my back on my Higher Power. Then my disease tells me that I am a failure, and that if I stay angry I'll surely get drunk. In those moments of self-will it's as if I've slipped over a cliff and am hanging by one hand. The above passage is my safety net, in that it urges me to try some new behavior, such as being kind and patient with myself. It assures me that my Higher Power will wait until I am willing once again to risk letting go, to land in the net, and to pray. See more

Please join us in welcoming Judy Evans as our new Club Coordinator! Judy will be taking on grant applications and fundraising for the club, to ensure funding for us so we can keep our doors open to serve you during these unprecedented times Judy will be at the club weekdays available to answer the phone, provide information and referrals, sell books, literature and medallions etc...

Unfortunately, due to covid-19 and the provincial restrictions, we WILL NOT be hosting the annual kids Christmas party. We still want to do something, so WE WILL BE accepting donations for purchasing gifts for registered children. To register your child please email the club at [email protected] with your childs/children's name, age, gender and any preferred gift ideas. You can also sign up upstairs at the club. There will also be a donation box upstairs. ... you can donate to this annual tradition upstairs or contact the club via email or phone to make other arrangements. We are also looking for volunteers to shop for gifts, wrap gifts and distribute gifts. if you would like to be part of this, please contact the club as soon as possible at [email protected] Thank you, in merriment The One Way Club Board See more

17 November OVERCOMING LONELINESS Almost without exception, alcoholics are tortured by loneliness. Even before our drinking got bad and people began to cut us off, nearly all of us suffered the feeling that we didn't quite belong. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 90... The agonies and the void that I often felt inside occur less and less frequently in my life today. I have learned to cope with solitude. It is only when I am alone and calm that I am able to communicate with God, for He cannot reach me when I am in turmoil. It is good to maintain contact with God at all times, but it is absolutely essential that, when everything seems to go wrong, I maintain that contact through prayer and meditation. See more

1 November I CANNOT CHANGE THE WIND It is easy to let up on the spiritual program of action and rest on our laurels. We are headed for trouble if we do, for alcohol is a subtle foe. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 85... My first sponsor told me there were two things to say about prayer and meditation: first, I had to start and second, I had to continue. When I came to A.A. my spiritual life was bankrupt; if I considered God at all, He was to be called upon only when my self-will was incapable of a task or when overwhelming fears had eroded my ego. Today I am grateful for a new life, one in which my prayers are those of thanksgiving. My prayer time is more for listening than for talking. I know today that if I cannot change the wind, I can adjust my sail. I know the difference between superstition and spirituality. I know there is a graceful way of being right, and many ways to be wrong. See more

31 October AVOIDING CONTROVERSY All history affords us the spectacle of striving nations and groups finally torn asunder because they were designed for, or tempted into, controversy. Others fell apart because of sheer self-righteousness while trying to enforce upon the rest of mankind some millennium of their own specification. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 176... As an A.A. member and sponsor, I know I can cause real damage if I yield to temptation and give opinions and advice on another's medical, marital, or religious problems. I am not a doctor, counselor, or lawyer. I cannot tell anyone how he or she should live; however, I can share how I came through similar situations without drinking, and how A.A.'s Steps and Traditions help me in dealing with my life. See more

30 October LIVE AND LET LIVE Never since it began has Alcoholics Anonymous been divided by a major controversial issue. Nor has our Fellowship ever publicly taken sides on any question in an embattled world. This, however, has been no earned virtue. It could almost be said that we were born with it. . . . "So long as we don't argue these matters privately, it's a cinch we never shall publicly." TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 176... Do I remember that I have a right to my opinion but that others don't have to share it? That's the spirit of "Live and Let Live." The Serenity Prayer reminds me, with God's help, to "Accept the things I cannot change." Am I still trying to change others? When it comes to "Courage to change the things I can," do I remember that my opinions are mine, and yours are yours? Am I still afraid to be me? When it comes to "Wisdom to know the difference," do I remember that my opinions come from my experience? If I have a know-it-all attitude, aren't I being deliberately controversial? See more

Hello lovely people We continue to follow the provincial guidelines for protection from Covid-19 Although masks are not mandatory, they are STRONGLY ENCOURAGED in public places. We have worked really hard in the club to have safe distances between people AND to ensure proper sanitization supplies are provided. ... We are so grateful for all the volunteers, members and meeting attendants for doing their part to assist in this. Please continue to keep 6 feet apart wash/ sanitize hands upon entry and often and Be kind to one another Just for today

29 October OUR SURVIVAL Since recovery from alcoholism is life itself to us, it is imperative that we preserve in full strength our means of survival. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 177... The honesty expressed by the members of A.A. in meetings has the power to open my mind. Nothing can block the flow of energy that honesty carries with it. The only obstacle to this flow of energy is inebriation, but even then, no one will find a closed door if he or she has left and chooses to return. Once he or she has received the gift of sobriety, each A.A. member is challenged on a daily basis to accept a program of honesty. My Higher Power created me for a purpose in life. I ask Him to accept my honest efforts to continue on my journey in the spiritual way of life. I call on Him for strength to know and seek His will. See more

28 October AN UNBROKEN TRADITION We conceive the survival and spread of Alcoholics Anonymous to be something of far greater importance than the weight we could collectively throw back of any other cause. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 177... How much it means to me that an unbroken tradition of more than half a century is a thread that connects me to Bill W. and Dr. Bob. How much more grounded I feel to be in a Fellowship whose aims are constant and unflagging. I am grateful that the energies of A.A. have never been scattered, but focused instead on our members and on individual sobriety. My beliefs are what make me human; I am free to hold any opinion, but A.A.'s purpose so clearly stated fifty years ago is for me to keep sober. That purpose has promoted round-the-clock meeting schedules, and the thousands of intergroup and central service offices, with their thousands of volunteers. Like the sun focused through a magnifying glass, A.A.'s single vision has lit a fire of faith in sobriety in millions of hearts, including mine. See more

27 October GLOBAL SHARING The only thing that matters is that he is an alcoholic who has found a key to sobriety. These legacies of suffering and of recovery are easily passed among alcoholics, one to the other. This is our gift from God, and its bestowal upon others like us is the one aim that today animates A.A.'s all around the globe. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 151... The strength of Alcoholics Anonymous lies in the desire of each member and of each group around the world to share with other alcoholics their suffering and the steps taken to gain, and maintain, recovery. By keeping a conscious contact with my Higher Power, I make sure that I always nurture my desire to help other alcoholics, thus insuring the continuity of the wonderful fraternity of Alcoholics Anonymous. See more

25 October A.A.'s HEARTBEAT Without unity, the heart of A.A. would cease to beat; . . . AS BILL SEES IT, p. 125... Without unity I would be unable to recover in A.A. on a daily basis. By practicing unity within my group, with other A.A. members and at all levels of this great Fellowship, I receive a pronounced feeling of knowing that I am a part of a miracle that was divinely inspired. The ability of Bill W. and Dr. Bob, working together and passing it on to other members, tells me that to give it away is to keep it. Unity is oneness and yet the whole Fellowship is for all of us. See more

Fantastic Movie night Great people Great movie Amazing Fellowship... We are Doing it again on Nov 7 at 7pm When Love is not Enough: The Lois Wilson story Cant wait

First Movie night is getting set up! I have some Extra blankets, pillows, lawn chairs if you need If anyone else has any extra please bring it Popcorn is ready to pop My name is Bill W is cued up... Lets have a great evening See more

Just a friendly reminder with the recent increase in covid cases, Please respect social distancing and sanitization protocols that are in place. If you have any cold or flu symptoms please do not attend the club until you have been symptom free for 14 days per Provincial guidelines. Thank you we really want to make sure we can keep the club open for people and covid free !