The True Woman In You Is The Outward Influence.

#THETRUEWOMANINYOU! Follow your heart and do the right thing. All that matters is knowing how to position yourself and positioning yourself is to position your innermost desire to what fits into your destiny and not that of others. ... At the new days draw near, value your true difference. Do something different! Try that clean idea your heart keeps telling you to put out. *Create your brand.* *The road isn't a smooth ride but don't lose your focus or drop the focus*. A change in mentality and approaches to things is a way up to partake in the blessings attached to newborn days of the year about to spring forth. For you to establish your destiny, you ought to embrace your path. This is the only true key to upward growth. No one will rescue you until you take a bold step and a true decision to become a self-rescue through your approach to life and things standing in front of you and it is your responsibility to accomplish them. *Be your true masterpiece. Set the standard for your personality. IfyChi #SheSpeaksToAmend

#THETRUEWOMANINYOU! Kamala the new vice president met the true love of her life at 49 she married at 50. Kamala is now 56 and just hit a major career milestone by becoming the new first black female vice president-elect in the United States. ... Of a truth, age is not a barrier to a girl grown into a lady that withstood all that life must have thrown her to dim her inborn sparkling light or to cut short her gaze so set to get to the Age, background or environment is never a barrier to happiness or greatness. Life will offer you a story of ups and downs. How do you want to tell your story to your community, upcoming girls and boys? What will your story be like? A story of settling for anything or a story of wasted energy and time on frivolities? Will it be a story that will uplift thousands to positive works? Or will your story be that of self-pity? It is not too late to push your Spirit out of the wrong circle of friends and thinking to follow your true discovered self. It is not too late to stop dripping too low to where you ain't meant to be. It is never too late to reshape that mindset. It is never too late to mean it, work towards it and achieve it It is never too late to start managing your time well and things you give in your energy daily and yearly. It is never too late to start thinking out of the box. It is never too late to say capital *NO* to the laziness of the Spirit and procrastination. It is never too late to step of out that comfort zone keeping you at one circle of complaints and bitterness every year. The truth of the matter is: Nobody is holding your destiny. You are the one who has chosen to settle for less and to do the crowd and being lost in the crowd. *What are your daily and yearly excuses you give to remain at one circle daily?* Patient! Perseverance! Self-discovery! Hardworking! Right thinking! Applied wisdom wrapped up in a well-recognised #Grace and #Humility brakes the barriers and makes anyone a true winner of the race in the end. *#Grace that has been given and well recognised goes the extra mile even in a little corner.* IfyChi #SheSpeaksToAmend.

#SheSpeaksToAmend Dears! A lot of ladies(Women) get into a new relationship/marriage with another person carrying their past abuses. ... If the series of relationship you have been into is all about bullies. You have to heal. Healing is what you need before jumping to another person. You have to stop calling men weak just because they refuse to put up with your mean attitude and disrespect. He isn't weak if he is always silent when you are barking like a loose dog for over a slight issue. He isn't weak when he has vowed never to raise his hands on you even when you pushed him to the wall so much. He is just being a gentle well-groomed man who understands deeply the concept of this word *Woman*. His heart is not a punching bag for your misdirected anger caused by your ex’s ways of treating you in your past toxic relationships. To verbally beat up your man won’t encourage deeper love. It will only cause him to leave someday instead of you constantly attacking his manhood. How about you seek inner healing and get your Spirit off your past in other for you to enjoy the new bliss you have found. #AdoreHisHeart. IfyChi #SheSpeaksToAmend.

#THETRUEWOMANINYOU! There is a stage you get to in life: All you have to do is to deeply and personally define what *adulthood* is and what getting into different faces of adulthood means. You define adulthood both in your character, approach to life, and things, self comportment, decision making, constant checking the circle and those you associate with and what truly defined being called an adult or one being married. ... It goes beyond what we think! It goes beyond what we assume! It goes beyond what we view on the flashy side. Being an adult is knowing how to walk on your lean even when the breeze of distraction might come from different angles like a high wind blowing so high in other to blow you off from your originality, and decisions. Being an adult means l can't be carried away or glueing to any pieces of advice that come from different angles. *Life race has been personal for decades.* Building a relationship and a true home has been a call of one true woman and one true man right from decades. It is left for you to know what you are building or what you want to build and the foundation you are laying down for yourself and your home at hand or in view. Take a decision that brings out the best in you and what you called yours. Take a decision your Spirit will assure you the true hand of the creator in it. Take a decision that will protect your home and increase the growth of your home like a lily planted by the riverside that doesn't deteriorate with time. You mustn't be controlled by people's decision for you. You must not allow all kinds of voices to compete with your true version. You matter! Your home matter! Your peace matter! Your happiness matter! Only one life, it is left for you to always stand on the safer side by being conscious of things and voices around you and your life. IfyChi #SheSpeaksToAmend

#THETRUEWOMANINYOU! Run your life as if you do have a choice. Strive to be at peace with all your choices, action and decisions including all your past actions. ... You must free yourself from any regret, shame, or blame of yourself and others. As well you must forgive yourself for what did you in the past(or failed to do) and forgive others for their part in your past difficulties. IfyChi #SheSpeaksToAmend.

#THETRUEWOMANINYOU! I just want to remind you! Marry right! You marry right okay!... Don't chase and focus on how large a man's pocket might be and marry who will use you like footwear someday. Are you going to be his or her everlasting taste in secret and in open? *Marry right* Is he or she humble enough?? *Marry right * It is not all about what you focus on. The flash wedding and all you have clued your mind on. Are you going into an evergreen peace of mind? Or one suffering and smiling outward? Are you going to be his or her everlasting taste in secret and in open? Allow God to lead you! God never leads wrong. Only desperation will make you think God is too late for you to wait for. IfyChi #SheSpeaksToAmend.